If You Don't Have Time...Don't Get In A Relationship

If You Don't Have Time... Don't Do It!

If you don't talk to her she'll find someone who will tell her she's gorgeous every day and stimulate her mind in unpredictable ways.
If you don't spend time with her she'll get her attention from elsewhere. From someone who's interested because you don't seem to care. You aren't there
If you don't take her on dates someone else will show her a good time. And show her what they have to offer as a mate.
If you don't want to share with her she won't share with you. Too afraid to do for you the things, for her, you do not do.
But gentlemen you already knew this. You know the rules of the game. They will always be around and they will always be the same....

Sorry I've been interrupted by a disturbing phone call on this very topic. What a coincidence. People before you get into relationships you need to know what you're looking for. Why are you with someone that you always complain about. If you can't think of anything good about the person you're with or about your relationship then YOU DON'T NEED TO BE IN IT! Duh! That makes you free to do whatever and whom ever you want to without disrespecting anyone. Also you aren't making any situations worse and any upset parties will get over their temporary anguish.
OOOOOKKKKK LADIES let's be clear. THAT DOES NOT TAKE YOU OFF THE HOOK SO YOU MIGHT AS WELL CLIMB RIGHT BACK BACK ON!!! You commit the same selfish offenses. And if you don't then you are the reason that your man would rather be doing something or someone else. Why did you stop living your separate life for him? He didn't do it for you? Why did you stop hanging with your girls? Did he stop hanging with his boys? And why are you expecting him to take care of you? Can he take care of himself? And on top of that did he ask you to do any of these things? Uh No! You want to know why? The answer is simple. No man wants a woman with no business. If you had some when he met you then you need to keep it while you're together. If you're always together then what do you have to talk about? And finally LADIES AND GENTLEMEN it is extremely unfair to hold anyone completely responsible for your happiness. You were happy before you met so continue with it. Don't put all of the weight on the shoulders of your significant others because no one wants that type of responsibility. We barely know what makes us happy at times and you want them to make you happy all of the time? uh no!

A Taste of Perfection

A Taste of Perfection

I am mesmerized by the architectural perfection of a being who sits next to me.
He's tantalizing
He's mesmerizing
I adore him
For now
in my mind
He's mine.
I am amazed by the structure of his being
I would love to explore further
the sights that I'm seeing.
My senses run wild
at the thought of what you could expose them to
and my mouth can't stop watering
from imagining you

Starting is the hard part...

Just a thought

Starting is the Hard Part


To conquer your dreams you must follow them. Sometimes that means setting some things and even some people aside. Sometimes it's not hard because it may not be that important to us and can easily be left behind. Other times it's not that simple and that's when following your dreams become difficult. A lot of people don't understand but there's a few who do understand that this is something you have to do for you. Those who don't understand will try to hold you back but they don't mean you any harm so don't bite back. They just want to protect you from all of the people with the same dream as yours and any rejection and slammed doors. The ones who do understand that there is a MASTER plan will encourage you to go forth and offer you a hand. When we leave them we expect for them to be there upon our return, sometimes forgetting that they have their own lives to live and their own lessons to learn. Now your journey has begun but you no longer see the light from the sun. You have yet to earn it. Getting deeper and deeper into your craft you must really learn it. Study the best of the best and then hope your work isn't collecting dust on someone's desk. Prepare to be told no and to have doors slammed in your face. Also for loyal fans and knowing you're still in the race. Everything you want to happen will occur at once but only i slow motion so you can experience your life right instead of sailing by as if you were on the ocean. It'll give you time to make every small thing a significant memory ad the opportunity to be just who you are so that everyone knows near and far.

So This is What IT Feels Like

This is something I started the other day. I haven't finished it yet but this is what I have so far. Please don't be afraid to tell me what you think.

So This is what IT Feels Like

Every time I see you I get butterflies.
And I can't do anything else but stare into your eyes.
I smile then turn as you notice me blushing
And my heart drops to my stomach
and my hormones begin rushing.
We are then surrounded by a glow
One that takes us
to a place that only we know.
Back to our past
As we wish we were one again
Back to a time where
things were more simple then.
I'm always nervous at first then you do something that reminds me
That you're still you.
And in essence
That's who you'll remain
through and through.
I fall into your sanctuary of comfort and joy
finding it hard not to accept
the very love that i was trying to avoid.
Offering me what seems like the world in my hands
makes me feel like I'm in a middle of a fairytale
or a novel filled with sweet romance.

Snippet of my work1

This is just a little something I'm working on. Let me know what you think so far please. It's just a few parts of a poem that's been in the works for a while now.

... my heart races against time and butterflies, they fill my insides. I go deaf but i can hear the language of your body almost allowing it to serenade me into a daydream...

... as you look into my eyes they are telling you my thoughts and displaying my desires, preventing us from denying this inextinguishable fire

.... pulling me in closer to inject me with the kiss of the eclipse as the sun and moon slow dance, displaying an undeniably sweet romance...

Imagination

I hear a lot of people saying that their imagination sucks. I say that your imagination is where your dreams are held. I question if they have dreams and they suck (which isn't at all possible because no dreams suck), or is it that they don't have any dreams at all. For me my imagination is everything. It takes me forth to the things that I wish to accomplish. If you don't have an imagination or dreams then you're just living life. Allowing life to happen whether it be in a way that you like it or not. As for me, I have been given free will for a reason. Yes there is an inevitable end result for me but the way I choose to get there is by taking the course into my own hands and reaping the benefits thereof instead of settling for less and still achieving my dreams. Wow I just thought of something else. Why would one have to use their imagination if they don't want anything, or if they don't want anything more. My imagination is so big because i want to leave an undeniably unforgettable Poetic Relief Legacy.

What becomes of harmless childhood games

Remember the age old game of cat and mouse. We started out watching it on television. Then we started school and at recess we would chase or be chased or catch or be caught. Yes just a harmless child's game that we played just to have some fun. Just like red light green light, tag and hide and seek. But what we don't realize is that the games we played we still play today. We just play a grown up version now because we have learned what we needed from the previous forms of the game and now we play them and don't acknowledge the name. When we break up only to make up we're only playing tag. Dance contest, don't act like you didn't participate, was practice for the club lol. We learned early what happens when you move on a red light but we call them tickets now. It's funny how growing up we practice playing the game of life until we are actually old enough to live it on our own. The only problem is that with all of the practice and getting life right some of us still can't grasp life and for those of us who can...we live