Be Careful...

Have you ever been in a relationship where you started off strong? I mean you started of at a really high point in your relationship and you felt that you would float on forever more together. It sounds good and I'm sure it felt amazing in the moment but, in actuality if you don't allow your relationship to grow to new heights, instead of jumping head first into something in the heat of the moment, then you're either settling in your situation or you're wondering how in the hell you ended up where you are now. Probably trying to figure out how to get rid of him/her. What should have been a short whirlwind romance, or even a one night stand, has turned into something that you saw coming from the very beginning. The only problem is that it isn't what you want. The love has faded for at least one of you and comfort has taken its place settling in quite nicely. As long as he/she doesn't ask you how you feel everything will be fine because neither of you will lie. Chances are, neither of you will ask the other that question anyway. How did you get to this point and how did you get too comfortable to leave an unhappy situation. Chances are that it would have been better for the both of you anyway. Fellas it is not okay to turn the girl that you only should have screwed into your woman. It just gives you an extra headache. Ladies don't be upset at that comment it's true. Even for us. Don't turn the guy that you only should have slept with into your man because it gives you extra work and headaches which we don't need. Better yet stop putting yourself into these I didn't mean to fall in love we were only supposed to sleep together situations. The last time I should have only slept with a man has never been a situation in my life. There was a time when I met a guy while in an uncomfortable situation with my friend. I wondered off with him and we rode around and talked well into the next day. We said goodnight when the sun came up as he dropped me off at my door and we parted ways. Where most people would have turned that into a story ending with sexual satisfaction we didn't. We both simply needed something that we didn't have. He needed somebody to talk to who had an unbiased opinion. I needed someone to talk to me. Someone who needed my opinion. As we provided one another with such pleasure the real intimacy came from the intention. No intention on ever speaking again we got exactly what we wanted. What started out as an extremely disturbing situation turned out to be quite a night. Be careful who you let into your life but be more careful of who you allow to remain in your life. Don't put yourselves in situations that you can't get yourselves out of without adversely affecting yourself or others